Wednesday, July 1, 2015

Teaming Together



 4:9-12  Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed.  If one person falls, the other can reach out and help……….Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.


Well, when we told you the month of June was going to be busy the word busy is an understatement.  
You all know Murphy’s Law, if anything can go wrong it will go wrong.  When we received the news that the container was going to arrive around the end of May we thought its arrival might interfere with our hosting the team of teachers from America in the middle of June.  Oh, how right we were!  The container did arrive in June, but it was held up in Customs for several weeks for various reasons.  I think the biggest reason was there was a conspiracy to try and steal all the Doves chocolate Janine and I had packed in our personal tubs.  Well, it worked we never received the chocolate. LOL  It was still a blessing to receive everything else.

Simon and I (Bruce) went to Kampala on a Thursday to pick up the Afayo belongings and were told after the second day that the container would not be released until Monday or Tuesday of the following week.  We both laughed because it only made sense that the container would be released in time for Mark Luckey to arrive from the States and he could be there to help unload the very container he helped pack and ship while he was home at the ECM  office in Indiana.

Just for your entertainment I will share the events of the unpacking of the forty-foot container from the time of its release.  The container was released at 5:00 Pm and then had an hour plus trip to make it to the field where we could transfer its belongings to our smaller trucks.  It gets dark  here at 7:00 Pm!  I repeat, it gets dark at 7:00 Pm, and there are no lights in the field where we had to unpack.  Thank God for the use of torches (flash lights) and car lights while trying to unload Thousands of boxes.

If the light issue wasn’t a big enough problem, the two trucks I hired to ship our belongings didn’t show up until 9:00 and 10:00 pm.  The second truck was late because the driver got mouthy with a police officer and ended up spending the night in jail.  I followed the first truck at 5:00 am the next morning to the village, and Simon rode with the other truck once the driver was released from jail at 9:30 am.  After spending three days in Kampala the trucks were unloaded on Friday June 12th in the village. 

David, Theresa, Lyla, Natalie, Sarah
On June 13th Janine, Simon and I went back to Kampala to pick up Mark and then traveled to Entebbe to pick up the team of teachers from the States.  The team of five had been coordinating their efforts and making plans months before arriving in Uganda.  Keep in mind this is not a team from one church or from any one given area.  They all volunteered their services through the ECM website which was assembling a team to work at St. Paul Primary Learning Centre.  They had never met before this trip.  The team came from Michigan, Texas and Colorado.

After spending a few hours with them it was obvious to Janine and me that they were assembled by God to do some much-needed training at the school.  The team, directed by Lyla Martin, spent each night preparing for the following days events.  We truly enjoyed listening in each night to hear how enthusiastic they were and how well they teamed together.   Each person brought something different to the table in regards to subject and in techniques of teaching.  They came with a humble heart to share the gifts God had given them.  In no way did they think their way was the only way to teach, but a different way to teach.

Dave Davis who will tell you he is not a teacher in the vocational sense was a joy to work with and along side of.  Before he arrived he asked for some small projects to do, but he finished the small projects on the first day.  Dave is an individual who is very self-motivated and very creative.  He interacted so well with the students and even taught them how to wrestle.  Dave planted a variety of vegetables and fruit trees around the school compound for future harvest. 
Janine and I had such a good time with the team we had a hard time saying goodbye.  Even though we were returning home to America two days later, we would have enjoyed a couple of more weeks with them.  We all had a great time and look forward to seeing them all again, if they decide to make a return trip.

You all may have been wondering about our new teammates the Actis’s.  They arrived a week or so prior to the above-mentioned events.  It is obvious they are seasoned missionaries and that they will need little, if any, help from us.  They were missionaries in Colombia, South America for 4 years.  Their vision, hearts, and skills will be such a blessing to us and The Mission.  The Actis family has four girls and they have a heart for missions just like their parents.  The twins, Sophie and Chloe, are a natural with babies and their sisters, Lindsay and Kennedy (KC), have a passion for communicating and reaching the people of the village and helping.

This is what our team looks like now.  Simon Mugulusi (a local Ugandan).  Bruce and Janine Coker (one year on the field).  Matt and Shelley Actis and their four daughters from oldest to youngest: Lindsay, Kennedy, Sophie, and Chloe.  Together we have some new and exciting things planned for the coming year 2016.  We are excited to be working with them all!

Kennedy, Lindsay, Shelley, Sophie, Matt, Chloe, Simon, Janine & Bruce
Your AFAYO TEAM

    

Sunday, May 31, 2015

How have we changed this past year?


Isaiah 55:8   My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts,” says the Lord.  “And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine.” (NLT)

As our minds and our hearts start to switch gears for our trip back to America, we have been thinking how different we are now than when we left, and how we have changed.  We have laughed a lot and cried a lot, (mostly Bruce) and learned a little more about putting aside our selfishness and giving ALL our joys and struggles to God.

Things were not ALL as we imagined.  Some things that we thought would be easy were far more difficult; other things that we feared, or that we saw as a huge challenge, we have faced and conquered.   Being able to step on, and kill, a two-inch roach with your bare feet is not a scary thing anymore.  Watching your rice walk on your plate all by itself only stops you from eating for that day.  Having a house that is always clean, bug free, with power and running water are not normal anymore.  Now when we have consistent power for a whole week we are singing praises!  

Learning to spend 24/7 with your spouse has changed us too. We both held good jobs, went to work, came home and shared a meal, talked about our day. We each had separate roles like: Bruce mowed the lawn, Janine did laundry etc.  Now our lives and roles are intertwined and hard to separate.  The problems that arise (which can be daily) we figure out how to tackle them together.  We have had to do whatever was needed to help each other out.

We have learned to take one day at a time and to be more flexible.  ‘Our plans are not always His plans’.  Going to pay the electric bill could be an all day event.  We can plan to accomplish 5 things in a day, but only one or two get done.  We can plan, have everything prepared, go to the village and find there is another death, a child needs to be run up to the clinic for malaria testing, or the rains and difficult roads force us to turn around.  We have learned to relax a little and enjoy the moment; you may not get another chance.

Being able to do our ‘one stop shopping’ at Meijers with its unlimited choices: Oreos, steak, clothes etc. will be a major luxury.  Food choices here are very limited and shopping in general can be difficult and frustrating.   The diet here is mainly chapattis (like a tortilla) rice, beans and matokee (banana).   We have watched families in the village dig and hunt for their food, never having enough to feed their own families, yet in their appreciation of how they feel blessed by us, they have given us food from what little they have, and what they have worked so hard to get.  And we must graciously accept.

Most importantly we have learned how important relationships with family and friends are to us; and that their prayers and support have a greater power than we imagined.  We have a deeper understanding of how big God’s love is for ALL his children.  We have learned to love a little deeper, hug a little longer, and live more in the moment.  Life is a precious gift that we should never take for granted!

We have learned that our struggles have made us grow.  We have learned to do things we never would have tried before, to step beyond our comfort zones. And when we feel inadequate, or not trained, we still need to take a step forward and try and let God do the rest!  His Love and Faithfulness is never ending!

We are looking forward to seeing you all and catching up on your lives!  See you soon!